Lam Tam Nhu has shared interesting stories about her married life with Hoac Kien Hoa many times on TV shows.
In a direct interview in 2023, Lam Tam Nhu did not hesitate to comment on her husband's appearance: "In my eyes, Chelsea Chelsea is always handsome. He is healthy, fat and never fat." She revealed that Willana always focuses on taking care of her appearance and keeping a habit of exercising to improve her health.

Lam Tam Nhu also once talked about her husband's spending views. She said that Xu Jianhua is very frugal with herself but is extremely generous with her family. A phone he has used for 5-6 years, the screen is cracked but still refuses to exchange, saying it is okay, it can still be used. But if his daughter wants to buy something, he will buy it right away."
Also in this program, Lam Tam Nhu mentioned married life and revealed an important principle that helped her and her husband maintain harmony over the years. The actress said that the two always agree on an "immutable rule": never argue in front of their daughter.
According to Lam Tam Nhu, her daughter was often by her side, so she and her husband had little chance to make a splash. In case of disagreement or disagreement, both of them will control their emotions, wait for their child to go to bed before sitting down and talking frankly to each other. Talking in a calm and respectful atmosphere helps them clearly understand the other person's point of view and find a suitable solution.
The actress believes that keeping her children in a peaceful family environment is very important. Not only does it help children feel safe and happy, this principle also helps both husband and wife learn to listen, give in and control emotions better in marriage.
Lam Tam Nhu affirmed that she had never forced Huang Jianhua to leave showbiz. After getting married, both agreed to let one continue working so that the daughter always had her father or mother by her side. Finally, Willis Kien Hoa took the initiative to put her career on hold, spent all her time taking care of her children and never regretted her 5-year break for her family.
In the latest episode of the program "The Lover of a Foreign Family", when guests discussed how to deal with situations where their partner often watches the phone, Lam Tam Nhu shared an everyday story of her and her husband.
Previously, every time the couple went out, Cai Jianhua was the one to drive, while she was busy looking at her phone. Until one time, Cai Jianhua could not hide his discomfort and said: "Every time I drive, I look at the phone, are you my driver?".
Lam Tam Nhu said that at that time, she was really startled by the attitude of housewife Hoa, and later seriously recognized herself. She smiled and said: "From then on, he drove me so I didn't dare to watch my phone, and I didn't dare to answer even messages."

The MC also humorously teased Lam Tam Nhu that he thought she would respond: "So I'm driving on the sidewalk, you're sitting in the back seat." I dont dare, I dont dare, Lam Tam Nhu said with a smile, immediately denying it.
Lam Tam Nhu and Hoa Cao Kien Hoa held a romantic wedding in Bali in July 2016, after the two made their relationship public for 2 months. In early 2017, the actress gave birth to a daughter, nicknamed Ca Heo Nho.
Although the couple rarely appear together and show affection in public, in 2021, in the film Hoa Dang So Thuong with Lam Tam Nhu as producer and main actress, Huas Kien Hoa made a special appearance as a guest.
The rare reunion of the couple on screen after a long time has made fans extremely excited. Through that, it can also be seen that Xu Jianhua always uses actions to support and stand side by side with his wife, showing that even though there are sometimes small disagreements, their feelings are still very strong and deep.