According to psychologist Chu Thi Thao - NHC Vietnam Center for Human Development and Psychology, too short a time to get to know each other can make couples not have enough opportunities to understand each other, experience conflicts and identify important differences, thereby affecting the adaptability and durability of marriage.
Not enough time to understand
Understanding too briefly can make two people not really understand each other's personalities, needs, and life views, and not understand themselves clearly before entering marriage.
Not yet recognizing differences between two families
Marriage is not just a story of two people but also relates to two families. Differences in life views, values and traditions, if not understood in advance, can become the cause of conflict after marriage.
Being passive when facing conflict
When in love, couples often have many fun experiences, but at that time they are not necessarily going through stressful situations together. If there is no opportunity to clash and resolve conflicts and disagreements, couples may have difficulty communicating and handling conflicts when living together.
Need time to prepare for marriage
Experts believe that quick love does not mean quick marriage. Two people need enough time to be together to understand each other, identify differences and prepare communication skills, resolve conflicts, thereby increasing adaptability and maintaining a sustainable marriage.
