At each stage of psychological development, children will encounter some problems such as unsatisfactory academic results, arguments or being bullied by friends... which will make them no longer interested in going to school every day.
Parents should pay attention and carefully understand the cause to find a suitable solution to help their children feel comfortable and excited to go to school.
Find out the cause
Parents need to find out the reasons why their children do not want to go to school. Maybe they are feeling bored, stressed about their studies, or do not get along with their friends...
This is also one of the reasons why children feel uncomfortable and find excuses to avoid going to school. Instead of scolding children, parents should spend time talking with them to find the most suitable solution.
Talk to your homeroom teacher
Regular contact with the homeroom teacher and the school will help parents understand their child's learning situation. This is also a way for parents to closely monitor their child's learning, environment, and any problems they encounter.
However, parents should create a private space for children to feel unduly controlled, let them understand that parents will always be there to support and give advice whenever they need it.
Create bonds with friends
Friends at school are one of the important things that help children enjoy going to school every day. Therefore, teach your children how to get along and find common ground with the class so that they can find friends with similar personalities and interests to play with and help each other study.
When children have conflicts with friends, parents should encourage them to share their own opinions and find the best way to solve the problem.
Create a comfortable living space
Creating a comfortable living space and family environment will also help children have a happy and confident mentality.
Besides, parents should also show respect for their children's opinions and become great friends so that children can communicate openly and share the difficulties they are facing...
