Equip children with self-protection skills early
The Law on Children stipulates that children have the right to be protected from all forms of abuse. However, to ensure this right in practice, parents need to proactively equip their children with self-protection skills suitable for their age.
From the first years of life, children need to be taught to recognize private areas on the body, distinguish appropriate and inappropriate behavior. This education needs to be done gently, naturally, without causing fear to children. Children need to know how to say no, know how to leave unsafe situations and find trustworthy adults for help.
Parenting guidelines all emphasize that children learn their best skills through regular communication and hypothetical situations in daily life. Open conversation helps children understand that sharing with their parents is not something to be afraid of or ashamed of.
Building a safe and reliable family environment
The family is the first and most important environment in protecting children. Parents need to create a safe living space both physically and mentally, where children feel respected and listened to.
An important principle in active parenting is not to use violence, not to threaten or force children. These behaviors not only cause harm but also make children lose confidence and feel afraid to share when in danger. On the contrary, listening to children's emotions and explaining instead of scolding them helps them form confidence and self-defense.
Parents also need to pay attention to relationships around children, including acquaintances, relatives, neighbors, and online environments. Appropriate monitoring, not lax but not too controlling helps reduce the risk of damage from both real space and cyberspace.
When there are signs of risk: No silence, no self-resolution
When detecting or suspecting signs of abuse, parents need to take timely action. The Law on Children clearly stipulates the responsibility of families and communities in reporting and reporting acts of child abuse.
Parents should not resolve or hide the matter for fear of affecting the family's honor. The delay can continue to harm children and cause them to lose the opportunity to receive timely support. Children need to be protected first, then appropriate psychological and legal support.
In emergency situations or when consultation is needed, people can call call hotline 111 - National Hotline for Children's Protection - for free guidance and support 24/7. The hotline is responsible for receiving information and connecting child protection services according to regulations.
Parents need to speak to children in simple, age-appropriate language; do not create a feeling of fear; encourage children to share; respect their feelings and always affirm that children are not at fault for abuse.
