He is the director of a real estate company that is known for scolding employees like food, coughing for an hour and many people are worried, now taking his father to the doctor, sitting in the hallway like a student waiting for the check-in point. His voice was deformed compared to normal days: " Yes, the doctor gave me an appointment for a general examination, you have been sick for several days...".
She is the head of human resources at a foreign company, who once scolded the supplier in a face just because of the late payment of the contract, now smiling brightly like selling insurance when seeing the nurse: "Sister, let me get a shot to help your mother relieve her pain. In addition, if possible, I should borrow the blanket temporarily, because she was weak, so the refrigerator opened like this, I was afraid I couldn't bear it."
Hospitals, after all, are places where power is not calculated by title, but by experience in feeding through sonde lines, the ability to know how to tie wounds to stop bleeding the fastest, sometimes just the ability to find the side of the elderly, the side of the person shaking and digging.
The patient's family clearly understands that just a light brow, an unskillful Inject of the IV fluid, is enough for the person they are close to. Therefore, if you want to go, you have to know where to choose the right place. The mentality of wanting doctors and nurses to take the most care of their relatives makes everyone naturally become an exaggerated procedure.
The transformation from dishonest to compliance, which can be understood as "Hospital syndrome", when you set foot here, the survival instinct of the patient's relatives will arise, by mastering yourself.
Anyone who has been on duty at the hospital understands that they do not require anyone to be afraid of hardship or low pressure. But the way many people try to please doctors and nurses, from giving up sugar, bowing their heads to begging excessively when mentioning a certain requirement for a patient who is their relative, makes outsiders only know and smile sourly.
Hospitals are like that, a place to remove all disadvantages and degradations, to let people return to their true self, with weakness and deep anxiety hidden within.
But you can imagine, if you bring the spirit of gentleness in hospitals to society, will people be less tired? If everyone was as gentle with everyone around them as with nurses, this society would have greatly relieved stress.
