It turned out that so, I went to social networks and searched for the topic of The King of your country and found countless comments, but if I paid attention, I would see that it was mainly women and comments that criticized and made me laugh.
I understood that her friend's intention was to criticize him for his appearance in the male King contest, and at the same time praise (but in fact criticize) my appearance. Because I am so close, I do not come to those comments about myself, but clearly we have a culture called: Ex appearance degradation.
Body shaming - a term referring to words and actions that disrespect the appearance of others. What is physical termite? It is a commentary, criticizing facial features, body parts or someone's height and weight. Sometimes people violate their own acquaintances or even those they have just passed by on the street. Just an unattractive appearance is the focus of body shaming. There are people born with a skinny nose, single eyelids, jawline bones or neighborhood legs...; there are people with bodies that are too fat or too thin, too high or too low... who have also accidentally become the focus of discussion for others.
From the perspective of the victim, there are many people who have been unable to put aside their low self-esteem after being criticized for their appearance. They can shift from a cheerful, lively person to shy, avoiding others. Some people even sought death because they could not bear the pressure of being criticized for their appearance. People with physical attraction are more likely to adopt unhealthy weight control methods.
External myopia is increasingly common and can unintentionally endanger the health and psychology of people with sensitive and self-conscious personalities. Therefore, you need to think carefully before commenting on the appearance of others.
I read somewhere an explanation from him who was so confident when competing in the King's award (whether it was because he said it or not), saying: "I want to beat myself and take the opportunity to represent those who have always been depressed and self-conscious because of ugliness since birth. Before, I always wanted to show my ability but I didn't dare because I thought the contests often chose outstanding girls and boys. But now, I would like to share on everyone's behalf that no matter how circumstances and appearance are born, it is not as important as loving what we have. Let's dare to express what we want to express. The result is not important, as long as we have done it.
After reading these lines, I returned to the images being discussed and saw that those who were body shaming were actually accusing themselves of some resentment in their psychology. Regular comments about other people's appearances do not make you more luxurious, but on the contrary, it is a manifestation of communication skills and lack of civilization.
If the reader above believes that he is in the male pageant of your country's King, then I think he is the winner and deserves victory more than anyone else.
