You just waver and go up to the attic, as soon as you see your wife, you see her face swollen and uncomfortable. Before you could speak, she said: you must have blamed me. Who can endure hardship and hardship like your grandmother? You grumbled: well, you know how to be a mother, you can't be so hard-working but you're actually just a good person!
Then you go straight to the room, open the computer and open a song with no words, hoping the music will ease the feelings in your head.
Early the next morning, he called his friend to have breakfast and coffee. A bowl of hot stir-fried pho and a cup of thick salted coffee will help you calm down. You complained to him about the conflicts and struggles of two women in the house from big things to small things, from being quiet to revealing small things and just afraid that they would break out.
After listening, he remained silent for a long time before saying: Actually, you met two self-conscious and sick men who you wanted to control. For his mother, no matter how old he is, he is still a burning, poor child in her hands. His mother always wants to control him with an illusionary mindset but makes a fuss that she is right, that she always does the best for him. And of course, she did not want to share her feelings with anyone else, even his wife. She was most afraid that he would listen to his wife too much and then overcome her restraint, and she lost her child. His wife is a strong woman and cannot stand the feeling of always being number 2 after his mother. She was also afraid of losing her role and felt she had no real power in the house. He will be the most tired person, how can he always be balanced, the one who resolves all conflicts and conflicts between two women to bring peace to the family.
Looking deep into his eyes, he wanted to ask: So what is the solution?
He said: The important thing is to always listen, understand and put yourself in the shoes of others to be able to behave best. If you can't, go away alone, to separate the two women. And you are with two women who like to control, will you get infected with their likes of control?
