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Pay attention to your parents' actions and behavior, especially the reason behind those behaviors. When you understand the motivation, you will easily find suitable activities to make them feel happy and useful.
Create opportunities for them to express their emotions
If sometimes repeated stories or broken requests from parents make you tired, try to be patient so that they can share and express their feelings. If you are too cold, they can become uncomfortable and distant. Instead, spend time sitting and listening - this will not only help them feel relieved but also help you better understand their psychology and needs.
Prioritizing relationships
No matter how they behave, they are still your parents. Keep focusing on affection and connection, instead of focusing on unreasonable expressions. Focus on the positive outcomes you desire and find ways to improve the relationship instead of reacting to emotions.
Permanent communication, no confrontation
When parents tend to act like young children, they will sometimes try to control you with emotions. Maintain steadfastness in communication - clearly state your views, listen but do not follow all unreasonable requests. Skilled, calm communication will help you maintain mutual respect.
Know how to manage and connect
Instead of reacting negatively to behavior that you find unreasonable, find out what makes them interested. From there, lead and adjust the situation in a positive direction. And most importantly, don't avoid it, because avoiding it only makes things more difficult.
