Ms. B met her husband through a friend. At that time, Ms. B had just ended a previous relationship and was quite sad. Ms. B’s love story progressed quickly, she and her husband “had sex before the bell rang” and had a child before marriage.
When their child was 1 year old, Ms. B and her husband got married. On their wedding night, her husband left Ms. B and her child alone all night. Later, Ms. B was shocked to discover that her husband had gone out with a karaoke bar employee on their wedding night.
Then, a storm hit. Ms. B secretly looked at her husband’s phone and discovered a text message: “This weekend, after dinner, go to a motel.” That night, Ms. B thought a lot and cried a lot, but her husband didn’t care.
To clarify everything, Ms. B decided to follow her husband. As promised in the text message, Mr. A and his lover met at a restaurant near their house. Ms. B went to the restaurant and sat from a distance; taking pictures of the intimate moments between Mr. A and his lover like a couple in love.
After 15 minutes, Ms. B approached her husband's table: "What are you doing? Who is this girl?". Mr. A and his lover were shocked and quickly let go of each other. Ms. B's husband explained: "She's just my sister, she just came from the countryside today, I'm taking her out to eat...".
Faced with her husband's deceitful attitude, Ms. B showed them an intimate photo and questioned: "A sister hugging and kissing. What kind of sister is that?". Mr. A lowered his voice and begged: "Just go home, I'll talk to you later."
After that day, the mistress continuously attacked Ms. B with threatening and challenging messages: "Please consider getting a divorce soon. Your husband is so in love with me."
Ms. B showed her husband the threatening messages from the mistress and asked: "Why haven't you and I finished working things out yet? She has my phone number?"
The husband was indifferent: "I don't know, he took my phone and looked at it himself. Now, if you want to solve it, solve it for me."
Currently, Mr. A and Ms. B are separated. Mr. A is openly having an affair with his lover and still fully supports his children.
Listening to the story, director Le Hoang shared: "I am currently a freelancer. It sounds nice, but in reality, being a freelancer is no different from being unemployed.
Sometimes, he has many lovers outside, but this girl is the only one I know. In my opinion, if a husband calls you “you-me”, it is not love, so you should leave him within 5 minutes.
Do you think having children together and a marriage certificate is love? If we call each other “you” and “me”, no matter how many years we live together or how many children we have, it is not love.
The marriage certificate only proves that my husband and I are legal on paper and in law, but emotionally, I get nothing.
I let my husband call me "you", that's my fault, I'm too easy, weak; I don't understand anything about love. I think too little about feelings. From the beginning, I accepted my husband's contempt, that contempt affected everything later: adultery, bullying, drinking, lack of love".
Director Le Hoang advised the 25-year-old girl: “In this relationship, first, you should get a divorce early, so that you can start your life over. Don't think about your child being disadvantaged, the child will be unhappy when witnessing his mother's suffering.
Second, if you have a new relationship, you have to look carefully, do they respect and truly love you? Third, you have to respect yourself first, prepare yourself, don't use any excuse about children or work to make excuses, neglect your beauty".
