Husbands often complain to each other about their wife's habit of talking too much, often criticizing their wife for complaining all day. They said that their wife was dependent on small things, big things, from indoors to the streets, everywhere she looked, she saw her husband's fault and then arrested him and used the excuse to argue. In fact, they could not understand the wife's thoughts behind those hard-working, complacent words.
So why do wife's complaints often come from? It is to remind the husband about how to behave, about the lack of responsibility of the husband towards the family when he is lazy all day, drinking, eating without moderation, not participating in sports to maintain health etc. Those complaints are truly love, the wife's care for her husband, for her family.
On the contrary, men are heartless when faced with those hard things, they have many ways to handle them, they ignore, ignore what their wives say or argue with, and use the excuse of leaving home to have a drink with friends. Any wife who does not want her husband to be more perfect, however, with her high self-respect, changing or accepting mistakes from men is almost unlikely, especially when they are considered the "pillars of the family".
A thoughtful man will understand what his wife wants, which is to want a happy home, a good husband who knows how to take care of his family and children. Women simply hope that every day there will be moments when the whole family can sit together to eat together, eat happily, and share everything during the day from work to study. Is that wish too luxurious?
"Happiness is the result of taking the initiative" - a book by young people accurately depicts the nature of the wife's efforts when reminding her husband.
A good wife is someone who loves her husband and always wants to give her family the most perfect things. So the wife will be tormented, will lament, and will get angry every time her husband makes a mistake. But if a husband knows how to accept and lower his ego to properly acknowledge the matter, he will probably never have to listen to his wife's earnest words.
If the man is still stubborn, and the wife no longer speaks, then the wife is already helpless and tired to maintain the family because "as long as she speaks, she cares".