Understand yourself before getting married
Before getting married, take time to ask yourself: What do I really want in life and love?. Don't get married just because you are old or because others urge you.
When you understand the value of life, what you need and what is unacceptable in a relationship, you will make the right decision and have less regrets.
Knowing how to live independently
Learning to take care of yourself is important. You don't need to be rich, but you should know how to make money, save and spend reasonably.
Single life is also a time to practice life skills - from cooking, housework to handling difficult situations without having to depend on anyone.
Preparing for married life
Before getting married, talk clearly with your lover about money, children, residence, work, responsibilities to both sides of the family...
Many couples have problems after getting married because they have never discussed these seemingly small but very important things. If possible, the two should attend a pre-marital counseling course to get to know each other better and learn how to resolve conflicts.
Keeping connected with relatives and friends
After getting married, you still need to have your own world. Keep in touch with friends and relatives - that is where you are shared, helped and balanced in life. Marriage should not be the reason for you to los yourself.
Legal and mental readiness
If you have your own assets, or have had financial problems, consider making a marriage contract clear and transparent.
For those who marry foreigners, they should carefully study the legal requirements or necessary documents before getting married.
