Prepare carefully for the meeting
The debut was not only an occasion for meeting, but also the first step in building a bridge between the two families. To avoid confusion, take the initiative to learn about your lifestyle, interests and things to avoid in your loved one's family. This helps you avoid unnecessary " belonging" situations.
Preparing yourself mentally before a debut can significantly reduce anxiety and increase communication skills naturally, says Dr. Laura Stein, a social psychologist at Columbia University. According to her, sincerity is always more important than forced perfection.
A small, polite gift such as a fruit basket, cake box, or bouquet of flowers is also a kind way to open a heart. No need to be expensive, just sophisticated and appropriate.
Skilled behavior to attract sympathy
During the meeting, prioritize listening before speaking. Adults often like young people who know how to respect family stories and are willing to share sincerely. Don't try to express yourself too much, because nature is what makes you loved.
Body language plays a big role, emphasizes Dr. Stein. Friendly eyes, a light smile, and a short sitting style help you convey a confident message without having to say too much."
In addition, show proper concern for your lover in front of their family: be tactful, not too intimate, not ostentatious. This shows both maturity and creates a sense of security for the lover's family.
At the end of the session, a sincere thank you is always necessary. It shows you respect for family time and hospitality, a big plus in the eyes of parents.
