Many people today not only wait for fate but also actively seek love. However, proactiveness needs to be accompanied by alertness to build a sustainable relationship.
According to Ms. Le Phuong - Director of the Center for Psychology and Human Development of NHC Vietnam (Quan Hoa Branch), to proactively build a suitable emotional relationship without being hasty, it is necessary to pay attention to the following factors.
1. Proactively expand relationships
Participating in social activities, connecting with friends, or trying new environments helps increase opportunities to meet suitable people.
Reality shows that when they are more open, many people realize that fate comes not only from waiting but also from their own actions.
2. Understand yourself and personal values
Before seeking a relationship, each person needs to understand what they want in love.
When life values and personal standards are clearly defined, choosing the right target will become easier and more accurate.
3. Do not let social pressure dominate
Many people easily fall into anxious psychology when they see friends around them getting married.
However, entering a relationship just because of pressure can lead to hasty and unsustainable decisions.
4. Proactive but not hasty
Being proactive does not mean having to love immediately or seize every opportunity. The balance lies in being willing to connect but still maintaining standards and not accepting an inappropriate relationship.
5. Build relationships based on similarity and safety
A sustainable relationship needs harmony in life values, communication skills and feelings of security when together. These are core elements that help two people stay together for a long time, instead of just relying on momentary emotions.
