Hoa Minzy's boyfriend's promise of "struggling for the future of his wife and children" is not just romance, but from an expert's perspective, it is a manifestation of a steadfast masculinity and the mindset of providing - the core values that create a happy and sustainable marriage.
In recent days, information that singer Hoa Minzy found a stopover with her military boyfriend and the affirmation: "I will try to strive for the future of us and our children" has sparked a deep discussion about the criteria for choosing a partner.
From a psychological perspective, women's safety does not come from absolute numbers in their accounts, but from "sufficiency thinking".
To explain why an independent and successful woman is still moved by a man with a lower income than her, behavioral psychologists have provided specific scientific foundations.
Dr. Jordan Peterson, a famous clinical psychologist, affirmed: "The most trustworthy man is not the one with the most assets, but the one who is willing to shoulder the highest responsibility on his shoulders.
When a man is committed to protecting and supporting his family, he is performing the most noble function of masculinity".
For a soldier, when they commit to striving, it is an "autonomous order" that weighs more than any temporary material value.
Another example from Professor David Buss (University of Texas), father of Evolutionary Psychology, conducted a study on 10,000 people from 37 different cultures.
Research shows that women always prioritize men who show "willingness to invest resources" rather than those who only have available resources but are selfish.
A man with a patronizing mindset will create psychological stability, helping his partner reduce survival stress to feel secure in developing himself.
According to psychologist John Bowlby, who laid the foundation for the Connectivity Theory in family therapy, emphasizing: "In a healthy relationship, a man plays the role of a'Secure Base' (safe haven). When a woman knows that she always has a place to lean on and someone willing to protect her, she will develop much stronger self-confidence.
Agreeing with this view, relationship expert Esther Perel (author of Mating in Captivity) added that marital safety is built on consistency. When a man keeps his word from small things, he builds an absolute "trust bank" for his woman.
Modern women need a "Wealth Tycoon
In fact, women today can be financially independent, but the need for spiritual protection has never disappeared.
The concept of "sufficiency" for men with firm masculinity is not a reduction of female competence, but an action to release pressure.
When a man puts himself in a shelter, the woman will naturally have her "armure" lifted off to return to peace.
The happiness of women like Hoa Minzy proves that: In marriage, attitude towards responsibility is more important than the value of assets. A man who dares to commit to striving for his wife and children is a true "tycoon" in terms of bravery and will.
