On the show "The Third Person", Ms. X said that her husband's family has four siblings. Besides her husband - Mr. T, there are two older sisters and a younger brother. Not long after becoming a daughter-in-law, Ms. X was psychologically affected by her two older sisters-in-law.
She shared indignantly: "After living with my husband's family for a while, I realized that they were jealous of each other in everything, from washing dishes, cleaning the house, sweeping the floor...".
In addition to housework, Ms. X and her husband also take care of all living expenses for the extended family.
Ms. X regrets not listening to her biological mother's advice: "Before getting married, my mother said that living with my sister-in-law was a problem, but at that time I didn't pay much attention, I felt it was okay and thought her words were a bit "old-fashioned". Partly I was too confident in my own abilities."
At the climax, Ms. X lost a gold necklace and discovered that her third sister-in-law had taken it to sell.
After returning home, Mr. T confronted his sister about taking his wife's belongings to sell without permission, but not only did he not receive an apology, Mr. T was also blamed by his sister.
After the “back and forth”, the sister-in-law also “physically impacted” Ms. X: “My sister-in-law wanted to hit me and slapped me twice. At that time, I couldn’t hold it in anymore so I hit back.”
Too upset, Ms. X returned to her mother's house. During this time, Mr. T texted her to apologize, hoping to take his wife back. However, Ms. X was shocked when in front of her sister-in-law, she showed concern and love, but behind her back, she made up stories to defame her. Not only that, this sister-in-law also made up stories, saying that Ms. X was looking for an excuse to fight with her husband to go out with another man.
After having many problems with her two sisters-in-law, Ms. X and her husband finally decided to move out on their own. During this time, Ms. X was pregnant but still started a seafood business. After a period of hard work, Ms. X and her husband quickly made a profit. However, Ms. X was shocked to discover that her two sisters-in-law and her youngest brother were competing unfairly by opening an identical store and attracting customers from Ms. X's side.
Regarding the story of “sister-in-law - sister-in-law” of Ms. X, director Le Hoang commented: “Your first mistake is to accept living together, it will be easy for many bad things to arise. Regarding the story of your sister-in-law selling your gold necklace, you should have talked to the police to see if she could bully you or not, or you should have knelt down and begged, why did you resolve such a big matter internally?”
However, the male director also scolded her for not thoroughly researching her boyfriend's family. He said that Ms. X was insensitive and tactless when she waited until she decided to get married before agreeing to meet her boyfriend's family after half a year of dating.
Talking more about the reason why you should choose to live separately right from the beginning of your marriage, director Le Hoang emphasized: "When living together, people will make you uncomfortable, but don't forget that you are also the reason why they are uncomfortable."
Although the "sister-in-law - sister-in-law" relationship has many problems, Ms. X feels lucky because currently, her married life is happy, living happily together.
