The woman in the yellow dress ordered a Latte and the woman in the black dress ordered a Cappuccino to make it different from usual. The woman in the yellow dress told her friend: Poor neighbor, he's completely different these days, his hair is always shiny, his beard is neatly trimmed, he wears designer clothes, he even bought a pair of sneakers, he runs around the park every morning, unlike before, his hair was long and flowing, he smelled bad, he dressed whatever was convenient, sometimes he even wore overalls when he went out.
The woman in black was surprised: Why has he changed so much? He's almost 60 and still acting like he's flirting with someone else.
The friend giggled: On the contrary, he is worried about losing his wife so he is doing everything he can to keep her. After living together for over 20 years and having three children, he thought of his wife as a cupboard or a chair in the house, leaving her where she was, never worrying about losing her, so he didn't care what his wife thought. Suddenly, a new director moved in, looking very handsome, dressing very tastefully, talking well and rumored to be in love with a bunch of people, but up to now he still hasn't married anyone. I don't know how many times his wife has met him, but after being coaxed so sweetly, she suddenly wanted to leave her husband and filed for divorce. Now he is trying to change himself to keep his wife, but I wonder if it's possible?
The woman in black lowered her voice: Everything needs to come from both sides. If the wife's love has cooled, it will be difficult to rekindle it, especially when a third person appears. As for the old man, even if he tries to change, it may be too late. Because in the end, the change must come from himself so that he can be better and live more responsibly, which is good. If he changes to please his wife, it will not last. When he regains his wife's love, he may return to his old state.
The most important thing is not to lose yourself. In the past, you don’t know, but in order to please my lover, I changed to the point of being completely different, from a terrible girl to a good dog. And one fine day, he changed his tone and said he didn’t love me anymore because I was no longer the person I used to be. It was painful and disappointing, but it was a priceless lesson.
