Then when she saw the bride and groom's names, she exclaimed: Oh, it's Mr. T again. Four years, three marriages, a record. This guy is really scary, he falls in love and gets married quickly, gets married and then leaves right away, then finds another girl.
Her friend laughed: Because T is a person who lives by emotions and is too perfectionist. There are people like T who only met her once at a drinking party and found her so cool and so individualistic that they fell in love. But being so individualistic was only fun when they were in love, but after getting married, they realized that she always wanted to impose and control everything on T and always forced T to follow her will, from the relationship with neighbors to friends and colleagues at the same company. Once, she got mad and waved her hand to use some martial arts that she had secretly learned in the martial arts land when she was on a month-long business trip. So T ran away and lost her... shoes.
Learning from the previous girl, T chose the second girl, a gentle and kind person who only knew how to take care of and take care of the family. But when she got married, she found her to be too boring, not knowing how to share interesting things with her husband, but just going to bed every night to watch TV series, then reading prayers before going to sleep, the other thing was fine, not having it was fine. T got bored again, left her and found the third girl who was the average type of the previous two. But I don't know if this couple will last? Actually, I just want to find peace, but when it's too much, I get bored. This life is unpredictable.
She nodded: Not only T, but many people, both men and women, are shouting that they want to find peace, but there is no such thing as absolute peace. Running away from instability and tension in one place to find peace in another is just running away from yourself. Because the nature of life is impermanent, nothing lasts forever.
The place that seems peaceful is actually just stable here and unstable there, the water surface is calm as a sheet but who can guarantee that there are no hidden waves underneath. In the past, I also believed in the eternity of love but later realized that everything must be nurtured from both sides, not just from one side. I can promise myself to love someone forever but will they love me forever, or is man's plan worse than God's plan?
So always consider the worst case scenario to avoid despair in any situation. “Life is so short, why be indifferent?” (Pink Rain - Trinh Cong Son).
