According to the story, the "third person" was actually his first love. Even knowing that the other person had many extramarital affairs, he still recklessly continued to love. Even at the age of 19, he once had a foolish act of taking medicine to commit suicide because of love. Luckily saved, but what hurt him was that the person he loved did not care at all after the incident.
This relationship lasted about 3 years with many breakups and reunions before ending. However, only a year later, he entered a new relationship and quickly got married. Tragedy began when his ex suddenly appeared at the wedding. Notably, right on the wedding night, the girl kept calling, causing his wife to answer the phone.
Not stopping there, throughout the time after marriage, he admitted to still secretly seeing his ex-girlfriend. "During that time, I continued because there were still feelings," he said. There were times when he left his wife at home to meet his ex-girlfriend, even though they both had their own families.
The matter lasted for many years until the wife could no longer endure it. After about 3-4 years of living together, she forced her husband to make a clear choice between family and extramarital affairs. Under that pressure, the man said that he had decided to return to his family, but the story still made the audience question the injuries that the wife had to bear.
Listening to the story, director Le Hoang frankly said that the problem is not in the impetuosity of youth but in the lack of awareness and responsibility. He commented that a man lives instinctively, does not control his behavior and is irresponsible to his own life.
Before the excuse "uncontrollable, it's a man", director Le Hoang immediately refuted that gender cannot be used as a reason for wrongdoing. He emphasized that many men can still control themselves and respect their families.
Not only stopping at personal stories, the male director also expressed concern about long-term consequences, especially affecting children. According to him, irresponsibility in marriage can negatively impact the awareness of future generations about love and fidelity.
For his part, the man admitted that he once did not realize right or wrong. "Currently, I feel stupid," he said. However, when asked if he really understood where he was wrong, he still said, "I don't know".
Closing the conversation, director Le Hoang emphasized that this is not a story of impulsiveness but a manifestation of a superficial, irresponsible lifestyle. From this case, the program raises a familiar but never-old issue: In love and marriage, clarity and responsibility are irreplaceable foundations.
