In the latest developments of the movie "1 millimeter away from you" currently broadcast on VTV3 channel, the character Hieu - often jokingly called Hieu "trapboy" by the audience - is becoming the focus of debate. As the story gradually enters important knots, Hieu's serious pursuit of Tu has sparked many mixed thoughts about love, change and long-term attachment in relationships.
Trapboy or also known as "bad boy" - a term for guys who are attractive in communication, skillfully create emotions and easily make others flutter, but often prefer to love the feeling of conquest rather than long-term commitment. They are not necessarily bad people, but are easily lacking in consistency and emotional responsibility when entering a serious relationship.
On film forums, a stream of opinions believes that trapboys will change when they meet the right person. According to this view, Hieu's serious pursuit of Tu shows that he has real emotions, no longer just fleeting relationships.
Tu is not the type of person who is easily conquered and that difference forces Hieu to look back at himself, learn to be patient and cherish more. For many viewers, love can be a catalyst to help a person mature.
Conversely, many opinions believe that the conquest-loving nature of bad guys is very difficult to change. For them, Hieu's seriousness is just a stage in the pursuit process, when the feeling of achieving is still attractive. When the goal has been conquered, the excitement can quickly fade. From this perspective, trapboys are not lacking in affection, but lacking in the ability to be attached sustainably - something necessary for a long-term relationship.
Putting Hieu's story in the context of love, the above debate reflects a very practical issue. In love, initial attraction and intense emotion can create a beautiful start, but marriage is a long journey of patience, responsibility and emotional stability.
People who are used to making love because of the feeling of conquest will easily be confused when entering a stage where love is no longer new, instead are everyday challenges.
In fact, whether a trapboy changes or not does not depend on whether they meet the right person, but depends on their level of self-awareness and desire to grow up. If the change only comes from the fact that the other person is more difficult to conquer, it is often unsustainable.
Only when a person truly understands the value of companionship, knows how to take responsibility for the emotions of others, can they step out of the cycle of conquest - discouragement.
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