Recently, an incident occurred in Nanjing (China), when a man pretended to be a woman on social media for many years under the nickname "Red billion" to lure many young men to come home to have sex.
However, what caused the incident to go beyond control was the act of secretly filming: Mr. Jiao secretly installed cameras in his room and posted videos on social media platforms to make a profit.
These videos have been widely spread. This leads to serious consequences beyond the personal scope, spreading to people without any involvement.
On the domestic platform Weibo, an account shared: "It is truly heartbreaking for thousands of women who are indirect victims in this incident".
This account wrote: "How many people are forced to go for a health check-up because they discovered that their husband or boyfriend appeared in the clip. There are also colleagues, classmates, and relatives identified by the online community. A social event with such a large scope of influence cannot be considered a joke.
A series of couples have cracked, many families are at risk of breaking up. Some women have spoken out about their crisis when being forced to face the harsh truth from social media even before receiving a confession from their partner.
Many people feel like they are "exposed" with their man - even though they are not directly involved.
One user said: "Seeing my friend getting involved in this, but being very close from childhood to adulthood, I really didn't know if I should ask or not. I was afraid that if I asked, I would hurt someone, but if I didn't ask, I was very worried."
The story of "Nining Binh Red River" is a typical example of the breakdown of moral boundaries in the era of social networks. A man pretending to be a girl to find comfort in loneliness has gone too far, becoming a law violator.
Hundreds of men lose reason out of curiosity or for luxury. And now, even those who have not participated - relatives, lovers, wives and children - are also suffering social psychological consequences.
It is the women who are wives and girlfriends of 1,691 guys who fall into the trap of love - who are going through more shock than anyone else. They are not only deceived, they suffer heavy losses in faith.
According to Sohu, when the image of 1,691 guys falling into the trap of a man pretending to be a girl spread at a dizzying speed, their lives were exposed, but the lives of their wife and girlfriend could collapse.
Below the post, many users also left comments, giving their views on dating in the digital age.
One user commented on the popular trend of online dating: "If you want to date, you should use a dating app like Tantan or Tinder. As long as there is a need, the algorithm will suggest it. In addition, many late-night platforms also have 'feel-provoking' livestreams, and some people who intend to meet with sensitive people will often proactively approach them immediately".
It is worth mentioning that in some cases, online meetings have gone beyond the framework of consensus, ethics and even the law.
Rapid dating, lack of understanding of each other has caused many people to get caught up in toxic relationships, profiteering or perversion, such as the incident that is causing a stir on Chinese social networks.
