But then he met someone who truly lived according to that philosophy, not considering anything in this life too important, except life and death. This friend, who was late for work, was scolded by his boss and laughed: "Oh, as long as he wasn't chased, it's fun!" Being kicked by his lover for being heartless, he grumbled: "As long as he wasn't hit by a car, it's okay!".
It sounds like a misconception, but thinking carefully makes sense. Because if you consider everything important, your heart will soon turn into a piece of American beef that is sucked into a pan every day, both pressured and wrinkled. Gradually, he discovered that if you reduce the importance of something, it no longer has the power to make you suffer. For example, what if I lost my phone? Data can be saved, numbers can be asked back, but it's good for me not to lose memory! Missed the deadline? No matter what the deadline is, there are many things that do not kill anyone! Unless you are writing an airflow control report or undergoing open heart surgery.
Some people will argue: "If it's not important, how to live? There must be something to strive for!. But the effort is different from anxiety disorder. Efforts are when you do your best and then give up, and anxiety disorder is when you hold on to small things like holding slow-burning bombs. And bombs will explode in any way.
We cannot live freely, but we can absolutely live freely... not having problems. Not to neglect, but to choose what is worth losing sleep, and what is just enough to fall asleep. And finally, after running around the Earth, climbing 9 clouds to find the most important thing in life, he drew a very simple conclusion: breathing is an opportunity. What can't kill you, let it be, don't let it kill your mood.
So, if you are crazy about deadlines, because of a hurtful sentence, life is not as good; sit down, drink a cup of tea (or the better the beer), look in the mirror and say to yourself, "This is not as important as I am still here and enjoying this beer".
