Actually, she was lucky, her beauty was a bit modest, her personality was frivolous, and she had bad breath, but somehow she managed to get a rich man. So she had a lot of contact with the upper class, from which her way of dressing, speaking, and behaving was raised to a new "level".
She began to act more ladylike and elegant, often sneering and criticizing things that did not please her and sometimes daring to argue with her boss, making her an "idol" in the eyes of many young women in the company. But when she came home, she returned to being a proper oshin serving her husband and children.
Her husband said that washing clothes in the washing machine did not remove all the stains, so she had to bend over to wash them by hand. He was also very picky and fussy about food, and sometimes if he missed a chili or a few green onions, he would get angry. One day, while eating, he suddenly asked his wife to buy a jug of draft beer to drink while the refrigerator was full of cans and bottles of beer.
He was also very patriarchal, showing his role as the boss in the house, sometimes scolding her very badly. But in return, sometimes in a good mood, he lectured his wife about how to treat rich and poor people; making her listen with wide eyes, looking at her husband in admiration.
She said her best friend was in a tough situation. She got married to her first husband, left him because they weren't compatible, dated a dozen more men without any results, all the while having to raise a young daughter. Then she accidentally met a rich foreigner, so she flirted and pursued him to the end. Eventually, the fish took the bait and her friend tried to force him to marry her so that she could take both mother and child to the West to live.
Now that you’re there, you realize that things aren’t as you dreamed. Your husband only likes to go mountain climbing on weekends. Your husband likes to listen to classical music, but you don’t understand anything, so following him is like torture, just wanting the trip to be over quickly. You’re not fluent in their language, so you don’t have a job at the company, and you just stay home and do small online business – something your husband hates.
Even that sensitive matter, in the past, the two of them were very compatible but gradually became bland, especially when her husband's demands were very high. She loved her friend very much, but did not know how to advise him. But she thought back that her life was not happy when she had to carry the burden of being worthy of her rich husband. She could only comfort her friend: Living to please others and yourself is the hardest thing in this life.
