Along with the development of social networking platforms is the appearance of hundreds of groups for women to confide in family, marriage... Men also have groups such as the hidden corners of men, Adam confidants... Each group has tens, hundreds of thousands, even millions of members. Most of the articles are sad experiences of being a wife, a daughter-in-law, and a husband.
With more than 110,000 members, Marriage Repair Shop is a Facebook group set up for everyone, mainly women, to share about married life.
In particular, many articles expose even hidden corners of the family along with complaints and blames for fate, relatives who do not understand him. And those posts will often receive more shares and comments.
A typical example is the article of an anonymous girl sharing about how difficult her journey to marriage was when her husband repeatedly said that he was not suitable for her age. Below the article, there was much sympathy and sharing, but many people also blamed the girl for being too wrong to get married so hastily. Many people think that is a loss: You are a girl and you are afraid of losing money. At 33 years old, not 63, you are in a hurry to get gold and then lose your whole life. "We were not compatible from the beginning, why get married when we were 3 years older. Men do not like wives more than their age and their personality is not compatible. They didn't want to get married without saying goodbye from the beginning, arguing like that is not good"...
Or with a post shared by a girl about needing advice, knowing that she was depressed, she did not dare to move back to live with someone who loved her, afraid that he would abandon them. Instead of giving advice and sharing with the girl, many accounts have mocked, suspected depression or did not believe the girl's story.
Wondering whether it is really good to post private matter online, Mai Huong - a 4th year student at the Academy of Journalism and Communication - said: Personally, I feel that I should not bring private matter, especially love affairs, to social networks to complain. Because this action has many risks, first of all, it is not certain that you will be sympathized, but who knows, you will receive many negative things that cause more headaches.
Second, putting private stories and images on social networks, many subjects collect images and data, then at some point release them for private purposes, or use them for personal gain, even use them to threaten and blackmail".
Sharing the same opinion with Mai Huong, Gia Huy (26 years old) - an office worker) - said: Women tend to share their private work on social networks more than men. They like to join groups with the same interests and views on social networks. Although not necessarily knowing the members of the association, many women still freely share their homework online.
I think this is not good because it is no different from "showcasting the shirt to the back".
The woman in the family plays a very important role, regulating relationships in the family. You should not post your homework on social media to ask for opinions because social media has many participants, each person has a different opinion.
Moreover, people cannot fully understand their circumstances. They only listen to one side of the story and give their personal views to resolve the matter, so the advice will not be accurate."
Social networks are a double-edged sword, so women need to be alert when using them. If you encounter problems in life, you should find someone to trust to share, find the right advice or seek psychological counseling to find the best solution.
