Women must first of all be women, not like anyone
In the journey to maintain happiness, women do not need to transform into a "warrior" like men, nor do they need to force themselves to follow the models of "perfect mother" and "exemplary captain" that social networks honor.
Women must first of all be women, confident in what they have, taking advantage of their emotions, intuition, sophistication, tolerance and connectivity skills. They are not weak, but they do not need to rush to become "manly-class strong".
It is gentleness, flexibility, perseverance and the ability to love unconditionally that are the "soft power" that helps women create, maintain and spread happiness in the most sustainable way.
A supporter, not a subjects
As wives, women should not put themselves in a inferior position or completely sacrifice themselves. They are companions, inspirations, not the silent shadow behind them.
A wife who knows how to listen, but also knows how to speak up at the right time. I know sympathy, but I also have opinions. Knowing how to manage a family, but that does not mean giving up passion and personal voice.
The most successful husband is not because of a willing wife, but because of a wife who is understanding enough to share, strong enough to support and love enough to overcome difficult times together without losing each other.
Not only teaching children but also setting an example for them
No one can replace the role of a mother in the journey to shape the personality of a child. But instead of forcing yourself to be a perfect mother, women should be a good, sincere mother who persists in learning with their children.
Modern mothers not only teach their children good words, but also live well so that they can learn from them. Do not teach children to be afraid of mistakes, but teach them to dare to stand up from mistakes. Not controlling, but accompanying with deep listening and empathy.
In a volatile society, children need to be nurtured in stable love, in traditional family values, but also need to be guided to become independent people, knowing responsibility for themselves and society.
Household management - an art that requires emotional intelligence
A woman is not only the one who "keeps the kitchen" but also the one who keeps the family life. They know how to organize a scientific life, take care of each member's health, maintain hygiene but still create intimacy and warmth.
Modern women do this not because of "fate", but because they understand that no one can create happiness for their family better than themselves. They know how to divide their work reasonably, creating an equal, respectful living environment, and rich connections between generations.
People who preserve family values and cultural identity
" men build houses, women build homes". If men are the ones building a house, then women are the ones making it a "warm home". They pass on moral values, preserve traditional customs, and maintain cultural rituals from the death anniversary and Tet to teaching children to "go above and below", "eat fruit and remember the tree grower".
In the midst of modernization and globalization, women are the "mentor" of a family, of a nation. They retain kindness, generational attachment, kindness - things that technology cannot replace.
Women do not need to "glare up" to take over the position someone is holding. They just need to stand firm in their values, courage, and love. Family happiness does not lie in a loud voice, but in a hearty presence, not in blind sacrifice, but in a responsible and smart choice.
Society is changing, women need to learn to love themselves first to love people properly. We need to know how to love without losing ourselves. When a woman lives true to herself, does not carry on, does not give up, that family will be happy and that society will be sustainable.
