In the past, the Confucian concept of “three obediences and four virtues” was considered the “golden rule” for women. Women must “at home obey their father, when married obey their husband, when the husband dies obey their son”. Women always stand behind, in the “lower door” compared to their father, husband and son. The value of a woman is assessed according to the “four virtues”: Cong - Dung - Ngon - Hanh. Accordingly, women must be good at housework, have a neat and tidy face and dress, speak properly, tactfully and have good morals.
Nowadays, modern women are no longer bound by the old way of evaluation but increasingly affirm their feminism. The beauty of women today is "Good at public affairs, good at housework", not inferior to men, active, active in all fields and reaping many successes.
The great Russian poet M. Gorki wrote: "Life without a mother, without women/ Where would heroes and poets be?"