On the recent social network, the online community has continuously transmitted videos back to the scene of violent husbands, beating his wife brutally and cruelly.
Wives in the video can only hold back, crying to endure the whip. Even the victims in violence are not only a wife, but also the children.
Although this problem has occurred for many years, according to the Ministry of the Interior's investigation, more than 90% of women were abused by their husbands who were not searching for help from the authorities.
In addition, one -third of the households whenever domestic violence often do not know what to do; About 25% of families believe that domestic violence is private, neighbors should not attend.
Many victims suffered from domestic violence but chose to be silent, concealed, endured and lived with being beaten for a long time.
Since 2010, the General Statistics Office has published a national research on domestic violence with women by the agency in collaboration with the World Health Organization, the International Development Cooperation Agency of Spain. The word research shows that domestic violence in Vietnam is very serious.
According to this study, for every 3 women who have a family or have a family being asked, 1 person said that they were abused by their husbands in physical or sex.
Mrs. Henrica A.F.M. Jansen, Head of the National Research Group on domestic violence against women in Vietnam, said: "Besides the discrimination is the shame that makes women keep silent, many women also think that violence in husband and wife relationship is" normal "and women need tolerance, endurance to preserve the peace of the family."
Talking to the Labor correspondent, Ms. Nguyen Van Anh - Director of the Center for Science Research and Application of Gender, Family, Women and Adolescents (CSAGA) - said many women were brutally violent but did not come to the decision to divorce.
"There are many reasons why women who are violent do not dare to divorce. Wives have many barriers, such as economic issues, social prejudices, relationships with violent people. The relationship between husband and wife is the relationship of love, including love, past cohesion, habits, sex ... making women unable to abandon a person who has cohesized with her.
However, the violent circle has a progressive and repetitive properties. The level and frequency of violence may increase but the victim has no way to escape. "
In fact, the information and data that the general management agencies are mainly detected by violence, leaving serious and particularly serious consequences, in which many cases have been happening continuously for a long time.
When being beaten by her husband, many women think that they are inevitable conflicts in family life, not aware that it is violent acts and they are victims that need to be protected by law.
On the other hand, if there is a discord in the family, the violence between adults, children also suffer severe injuries.
According to experts, children living in domestic violence can become the same person, because they have been infected with the violent model from members.
The CSAGA organization emphasized that many children are no longer safe to live in their own family. They not only suffer from physical and emotional damage, but also suffer from the development of life.
"Children who grow up in the scene of violence will be greatly affected by psychology. I have met many children who are hurt, depressed, have negative thoughts because they live in violence. Even when growing up, they will use violence with friends.
