There are people who lose peace just because of a short statement. Some people trade their entire value for life, just to get a nod from an ungrateful crowd. But are you happy, having to endure every day just to be accepted?
Remember, the mouth belongs to another person but your life is your life. No one can live without you during the difficult years. No one can replace you in carrying sleepless nights because of pain, because of pressure, because of fatigue to the end. So, why live up to their standards?
Understand, it is not necessary to say
Not everything needs to be disseminated and disseminated. There are things that are enough to know, to keep in mind is the way to be smart. Speaking at the right time is courage, being silent at the right time is maturity.
People with a lot of understanding sometimes choose to stay silent to keep peace, not because they do not know how to resist. Because they know: struggling with things that are not deserved, only making themselves feel more burdened.
Seeing clearly but knowing how to let go at the right time
The greatest victory is not to understand others, but to understand yourself. When you understand what you need, you will know what is worth holding back, what should you leave quietly. When you see people's hearts clearly, you don't need to argue, just smile and step by.
Life does not require you to always be right. Life just hopes you understand enough so you don't lose yourself.
Don't live to prove, live to be peaceful
People can criticize you when you are weak, jealous when you are successful, cold when you change. But then they will forget very quickly. Only you are the one who remains with the consequences of all choices.
So, don't force yourself to be perfect, don't paint yourself to suit the expectations of the world. You don't need to prove it, you just need to live by what you believe in, and live lightly by what you give up.
Your words may be good, but your behavior is the truth
In this world, there are many people who know how to keep their promises, but few people who keep them. A promise is not equal to a small act. Don't rush to believe what people say when they are happy, look at how they behave when they no longer need you.
Trust is not easy to build but is very easy to collapse. And the way people break their promises is also the way they teach you to appreciate your own silence.
After all, you are still the one responsible for your life
The world can be noisy, people's hearts can change, but being honest with yourself is something that should never be lost. You can't control your tongue, but you can absolutely choose a life that is peaceful enough so as not to be disrupted by Vice.
You may not be rich, outstanding, or not be perfect, but you are happy with yourself. And that was enough.
