Ms. Y shared that she and Mr. K met each other when he was her father's colleague, working in the field of camera installation and was 9 years older than her.
After receiving approval from both families, the couple officially “got married”. Like many other couples, they lived happily and not long after, welcomed their first daughter.
Two years later, Ms. Y gave birth to a baby girl unexpectedly. Since then, Ms. Y and her husband have often had conflicts because both of their jobs have problems.
Because of her lack of income, Ms. Y and her husband often argued. Ms. Y admitted that she looked older and more miserable than before because she had two children. At the peak, she was shocked to discover that her husband and his close friends had a “chat group” on social media and were gossiping about her “deteriorated” appearance.
Ms. Y recounted the conversation: "Your wife looks so miserable after giving birth to two children."
What made Ms. Y unable to hold back her tears was that her husband not only did not speak up to protect his wife, but also joined his close friends in mocking the appearance of the "mother of two".
Even though she read Mr. K's "unpleasant" messages, Ms. Y could only accept it and not blame him.
After a while, she was surprised when her cousin reported that he had seen Mr. K taking his young lover to watch fireworks. After getting the information, Ms. Y questioned Mr. K about the affair, and Mr. K admitted it after a while of denying it.
When Ms. Y asked her husband to end his relationship with his lover, Mr. K confessed that his lover was young and that they had spent the night many times at hotels.
Choosing to "turn a blind eye", the young lover continuously took provocative actions by actively texting and calling Ms. Y "Second Sister".
From Ms. Y's sharing, director Le Hoang questioned Ms. Y on why she fought for custody of the two children, while not having the ability. At the same time, this action indirectly put Mr. K in a position where he was not responsible for raising the children.
“I don’t know how many Vietnamese girls act like that, once divorced, they immediately think that the child must live with them regardless of their economic situation. This is a good action, very sacred, but logically it is unimaginably wrong. First, I don’t have enough strength to raise the child, second, I free the man from the responsibility that he should have, do you think I am weak?”, the male director was upset.
Ms. Y thinks that because her husband hangs out with bad friends and only knows how to criticize his wife and children, he is affected. However, the director of the movie "White Angels" disagrees: "What you say is not right, in fact, men talk frankly and tell the truth. So first of all, you have to blame yourself, there are countless girls who appear on this show and say that because they have children, they do not take care of their appearance. You cannot explain and expect people to understand that you are a sissy but you love your husband and sacrifice for your children. People are not responsible for sympathizing with you."
Director Le Hoang frankly said that Ms. Y's life was a "series of mistakes" due to her lack of knowledge about men, love and the law.
Closing the program, the male director also pointed out the mistakes of Ms. Y's family when they intentionally pushed their daughter to get married at a very young age, without enough awareness about love and men.
